I meant to have the site up and running, but then I ran into a snag when using PayPal as my payment processor. Well, I F’ed around and found out that I missed the Terms and Conditions stating I can’t use PayPal for a dating website. My mistake got my account with PayPal shut down permanently for life. They took no account that I had my account since 2003 (as a business account since 2013) or that I complete $1000 or more in monthly transactions (with 99% of all transactions making a payment to another business or person). They also cut my Venmo account permanently. They won’t let me know why they cut my account, but it is the only thing I could have violated in the Terms & Conditions. That all being said, we will be up very soon, before the end of this weekend. This experience reminded me to keep a human element in the businesses I create. Suppose you are ever banned from any site I build. In that case, I promise to explain precisely why the situation happened. You will get to voice your appeal, gaining proper due process and not a robotic disconnection.
Why don’t you make it a free site with no payments required and use advertising to make the money needed to run it? I hear you; however, a big issue that will happen with a free site is a site full of scammers. I made it so you can easily have a free site, but you can’t send the initial messages unless you are a premium member. Restricting initial messages won’t stop all scammers, but it will limit how much they annoy you. In the future, we will create a verification system to eliminate scammers.